To The Lighters\/ The Lighters In Training\/ The I don’t know what the hell a ‘Lighter’ is!<\/p>\n
Here are 5 things that you can do today to feel good and\u00a0Turn Lights On.<\/p>\n
Description of Turn Lights On\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n Turn Lights On is a practice that one person performs to another. \u00a0It’s when you approach a conversation with the purpose of making the other person feel like they are valued and listened to resulting in a connection, a spark, a transaction of energy creating a moment that you both share in the here and now. When you turn someones lights on you hear it in their voice, see it in there face and feel it in their smile. \u00a0The more you do it the better you get \u00a0at it and the more you feel and see it.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n WARNING – HIGHLY ADICTIVE AND WILL CAUSE HAPPINESS AND BUILD MORE RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE MORE RICH!<\/em><\/p>\n 1. Be there<\/strong> – You can’t be in the moment with someone and Turn their Light On\u00a0if you are somewhere else. \u00a0These kind of conversations happen all the time, you know the ones when you are looking at somebody, they are saying the right things but you know they are somewhere else.<\/p>\n 2. Be curious<\/strong> – With what’s going on for someone, fact find out about them. \u00a0Notice I don’t say “Be interested” the reason? \u00a0Because being interested may be more\u00a0about you and what you’re interested in, come from a neutral place it’s much more free.<\/p>\n 3. Stop thinking just do it<\/strong> – There are so many fear triggers that stop us Turning Lights On;\u00a0Will I look like an idiot? \u00a0What if someone doesn’t want me to talk? \u00a0What happens if they think I’m weird? Blah Blah Blah!\u00a0 This is your ego having a moment. \u00a0Park your ego and just get out of your own way. \u00a0It doesn’t have to be heavy. \u00a0Just do it! \u00a0Just enjoy it!<\/p>\n 4. Ask questions<\/strong> – Asking how are you in the most present way with the outcome of really wanting to know how someone is. \u00a0We have these ping pong conversations, when our autopilot kicks in, that normally go:<\/p>\n “How are you?”<\/p>\n “Fine, how are you? ”<\/p>\n “I’m good.”<\/p>\n Wow – memorable! \u00a0Nobody wants to own the ball, don’t bat back the ball own it baby<\/strong>! \u00a0Asking more about their day if they give the “fine” response. \u00a0Being curious and asking what, why, how to seek more juicy conversation.<\/p>\n 5. Feel your conversations<\/strong>\u00a0– Don’t just speak them! \u00a0If you don’t go into energy and all that jazz you’ll LOVE reading our\u00a0free chapter of the book (Click here to get it now!<\/a>). \u00a0Be\u00a0aware of your own energy and the impact\u00a0it has on other people. \u00a0We leave an energetic fingerprint whatever\u00a0we do and Turn Lights On is about really connecting and that comes from the heart. \u00a0You don’t have to tell everyone you love them you just have to open up a bit, this is a personal thing and everyone is different. \u00a0This comes in many different disguises humour, kindness, compassion they are all good at helping this invisible wall come down so we can connect with each other.<\/p>\n I have a favour to ask of you: make it your mission today to\u00a0Turn <\/strong>one Light On.<\/strong>\u00a0 See how it feels and looks, I’m not going to go into that yet as I will be taking all the fun away from your TLO adventure!<\/p>\n Enjoy!<\/p>\n George<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" To The Lighters\/ The Lighters In Training\/ The I don’t know what the hell a ‘Lighter’ is! Here are 5 things that you can do today to feel good and\u00a0Turn…<\/p>\nHow to do it!<\/h2>\n